Article: Stop Blaming Sean for His Own Murder

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Article: Stop Blaming Sean for His Own Murder

Post by Fios »

This is a really excellent piece:

Don’t be so quick to blame the murder victim

By EUGENE ROBINSON

November 30, 2007

WASHINGTON — Why do you suppose so many people were so quick to blame Sean Taylor for his own murder?

Relax, that’s a rhetorical question. There’s no need for self-exculpatory huffing and puffing, no need to point out that the verdict of suicide-by-bad-attitude — pronounced so often this week, and so coldly — was usually couched in broad hints or softened by the nebulous fog of the conditional mood. Everyone knew what was really being said, and everyone knew why.

Taylor instantly became not a person but a character, one whose purpose was to advance a narrative about young black men and their manifold failings. Taylor, a gifted defensive back for the Washington Redskins, had been in trouble with the law. Despite the millions he earned playing football, he never managed to escape the quicksand lure of the mean streets — parasitic friends, envious haters, a culture of casual violence. It was his decision to swim in this cesspool of dysfunction, the narrative said. And, like so many other young black men who have made the same wrong choice, he paid for it with his life.

At least that was the story before Wednesday, when Robert Parker, director of the Miami-Dade police, announced that investigators had “no reason” to believe Taylor was targeted by his killer or even knew the man who shot him. Police were operating on the theory that the crime was a botched attempt at burglary, Parker said, essentially a random act.

I realize that Parker may eventually be proved wrong. But what fascinates me is how eager people were to believe the worst about Taylor — how ready to stuff a young man’s death into a box labeled “pathology” and call it a day — in the absence of supporting factual evidence. Apparently, “innocent until proved guilty” doesn’t apply to young black men even when they’re the victims of violent crime.

The few facts we have, in fact, tell a story that’s very different from the chosen narrative. Sean Taylor is hardly a typical product of those fabled “mean streets” — he grew up with his father, a suburban police chief, in a middle-class neighborhood. He did spend weekends with his mother in a tougher area, though, and acquired some sketchy friends. But at the same time he was attending an exclusive private high school, where he met his girlfriend Jackie Garcia, a niece of the actor Andy Garcia.

Taylor’s home, with its expansive yard and its big swimming pool, is in an upper-middle-class suburb. There’s nothing remotely “mean” about the street.

Jackie Garcia hid under the covers with the couple’s 18-month-old daughter early Monday while Taylor faced the intruder who shot and mortally wounded him. Andy Garcia released a statement Wednesday praising Taylor for his “heroic” sacrifice that saved Jackie’s life.

Much has been made of the fact that Taylor grabbed a machete from under his bed before confronting the intruder. In New York or St. Louis or Seattle, if you saw a machete you’d think: deadly weapon. But I spent years covering Latin America for The Washington Post, so when I see a machete in a place like Miami I’m more likely to think: garden implement. Tropical vegetation is a lot easier to trim with a machete than with hedge clippers, and Taylor’s father said Sean used the blade in his yard. No, machetes are not usually kept under the bed. But if my house had been broken into recently — as Taylor’s was, barely a week before his slaying — I might have wanted the thing a little closer to hand.

My purpose here isn’t to make a hero out of Sean Taylor, though he may well have died a hero’s death. He made some serious mistakes in his life, and he didn’t always have the proper regard for authority and discipline. Nor am I trying to sell the “he was finally turning his life around” narrative, as if taking a few GPS readings were enough to show anyone the way to responsible manhood.

Life isn’t so linear — and people aren’t so one-dimensional.

The next time you encounter a young black man like Sean Taylor — a man who can be headstrong and rebellious, who listens to rap music and sometimes wears his hair in a wild-man ’fro that’s meant to intimidate, who scowls when we want him to smile and makes a bad mistake or two and doesn’t choose the friends we would want him to choose — know that there is possibility within him, and contradiction, and the capacity for love. Know that he’s more than a plot device.


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Post by BossHog »

Kudos to Eugene... that's a very fair and well thought out article.

Thanks for posting it... maybe with enough real assessments, the bitter taste in my mouth from the poor ones will eventually go away.
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=D> One writer who somehow managed to avoid every stereotype "hot button" that every other writer seems to be pressing at every turn.

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Yeah I think we need to keep posting these articles, because I think it says a lot about a writer's character - what he/she CHOOSES to write about right now.
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True! =D>
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I read that article this morning, and sent him an e-mail congratulating him on a well written and though out article.
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Finally!!!! :celebrate:
Words can't express the loss I feel in my heart.

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We will always remember you.

Sean Taylor was known for his hard hits.

His hardest hit will always be the day that he was taken from us.
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Gezzzz.. Its about time!
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A well thought out article. Thanks for posting it.
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Post by Secondary_Chaos »

Thank God, someone who doesn't blame the man for his own murder... I am so sick of hearing that crap. I will stand up for ST and who he was til the end.. I didn't know the guy, but neither did most others who are writing about him. From what i've heard from members on this board and his teamates, what the media portrayed him as wasn't who he really was. God forbid someone makes a bad choice or two in their lifetime...
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Thanks Fios
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No need to thank me folks, thank the man who wrote it :up:
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Fios wrote:No need to thank me folks, thank the man who wrote it :up:


You see, 1niksder, it's like I told you: behind every seeming "accomplishment" of a cup is a human who did all the hard work. Sheesh.
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Irn-Bru wrote:
Fios wrote:No need to thank me folks, thank the man who wrote it :up:


You see, 1niksder, it's like I told you: behind every seeming "accomplishment" of a cup is a human who did all the hard work. Sheesh.
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Post by ChrisHanburger »

Excellent. Just excellent. This article has been emailed to all the people I know around here who immediately jumped on the "blame it on the Gangsta" bandwagon.
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jazzskins wrote:I read that article this morning, and sent him an e-mail congratulating him on a well written and though out article.
Let us in on the email address. I'd like to write him as well, and I'm sure others would too.
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It's at the bottom of the article. :-"

I believe it's eugenerobinson@washpost.com. Of course you'll notice, it wasn't posted at washingtonpost.com, since the two main culprits both write there.
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The media is retarded.
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JansenFan wrote:It's at the bottom of the article. :-"

I believe it's eugenerobinson@washpost.com. Of course you'll notice, it wasn't posted at washingtonpost.com, since the two main culprits both write there.


I emailed him earlier to thank him for the article... it's not something that I ever do. To be honest, I'm very rarely impressed or inspired enough to do so.

His article was a ray of sunshine. My 2 cents
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Post by CanesSkins26 »

Another good article from Lebetard. More about the media coverage than Sean Taylor, but I'm glad that he is voicing what many of us here feel about the media's portrayal of Sean.

Media has failed with Taylor coverage

By DAN LE BATARD
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I'm proud of this ridiculous thing I do for a living. It makes me happy. It is a lot of arrested-development fun. And it gives me the kind of power and platform I don't really deserve.

But there are times when being a journalist in today's climate embarrasses me. Makes me feel dirty and ashamed. I've always wondered why the reporters in the movies are so often portrayed as greasy, sneaky profiteers chasing the hero.

And then Sean Taylor dies in a terrible way, and it reminds me.

Journalism isn't very human sometimes. It isn't very compassionate or empathetic, either. Objectivity, the alleged bedrock of this profession, is both the excuse we hide under and a lie.
There are slants and shades in everything you read, hear and see as the line between Chris Wallace and Keith Olbermann and Bill O'Reilly and Katie Couric and Geraldo Rivera becomes blurred and smeared as entertainaournalism. Asking emotional humans, with all their embedded prejudices and experiences and baggage, to be without bias (conscious or subconscious) is like asking night not to be dark. All we can do is aspire to clinical objectivity as professionals and hope that too many people don't get trampled and harmed when we inevitably fail.

CRUEL AND UNFAIR

And we've done some failing on this Taylor story. What happened to him and his family is cruel and unfair. That's it. It isn't endemic of a people or a region or a school. It is just unspeakably cruel and unspeakably unfair. I don't know how anyone could lack so much compassion that they would somehow blame a city or school or culture to this awfulness, as if a city or school or culture could possibly deserve something that brings this kind of sobbing and wailing.

And yet that's what Time Magazine and MSNBC and FOX and CNN and ESPN have wanted to discuss in recent days because the machine must stay fed, and it matters less and less what kind of garbage we throw into its insatiable maw and try to pass off as nutrition. Why does this keep happening in Miami -- the city and the university? What's going on down there? As if Taylor somehow brought this grief upon himself, as if South Florida brought it upon itself. The late Darrent Williams, killed in a drive-by at 24, isn't representative of Oklahoma State's thug culture. But Taylor, killed in his home at 24, is representative of the University of Miami's?

TOO MUCH GOSSIP

I can't imagine how terrible it must be for Taylor's broken family to watch the television and see their late son/brother/boyfriend turned into a talk topic and one-dimensional stick figure because we, the media, didn't and couldn't have a complete picture of their beloved and didn't have the time to wait for one to develop. We didn't have very much information immediately after Taylor's death, but we had too much time to fill without new information, so too much of Taylor's televised eulogy became noise and speculation and gossip-cloaked-in-journalism about his troubled past.

A DUI and a gun-waving incident aren't irrelevant, but they weren't all Taylor was, either. Brett Favre, rest assured, won't be eulogized with excessive emphasis on his pain-killer addiction, especially not if he were to die this horrifically. How do you think your grieving family would like to see you defined on television by your one or two worst public moments?

God bless him, Taylor's brave and tranquil father, suffering the worst pain a human can, has been as strong as anyone I've ever seen in front of TV cameras.

There would be plenty of people applauding, and no one blaming him, if he lashed out angrily at all the people trying to do their job on his lawn.

I just wish sometimes that my profession had more of his grace.


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Post by Snout »

What I am about to say will probably piss a lot of people off. So be it. Somebody needs to say it.

This article is way off the mark. Nobody "blamed Sean for his own murder." People merely asked the question "Was this preventable? Or was it just a random act of violence?"

For a fact, Sean's house was burglarized a week before, and his closest friends on the team didn't even know about it. Does that sound strange to anyone?

For a fact, Sean has been involved in gun-related incidents before, and the terms of his parole precluded him from possessing a gun.

For a fact, Sean still had enemies.

For a fact, he had a machete under the bed. Does anyone really think "garden implement" when they hear that? Does anyone really think Sean possessed a machete to cut down tropical vegetation? How many NFL players do their own gardening?

For a fact, other NFL players who are familiar with the neighborhood have said that it was dangerous, and believe that Sean put himself at risk by staying there. The author tries to paint the neighborhood with white picket fences, but that just aint the truth.

What do all those facts point to? Add it up. Think like a police detective, not a grieving fan. It is far more likely than not that the murderer knew who Sean was. Thank God Washington Redskins fans are not Miami police detectives.

The real story here is not that journalists are messed up when they try to connect the dots and speculate about what might have happened. The real story is that people do not deal with death very well, especially in a murder case, and especially when the victim is a football star. People get a misplaced notion that to honor the victim as a hero, we must not ask difficult questions about the truth of what likely happened. People have a wrongheaded notion that we "spit on his grave" if we second guess anything that he did or did not do that might have changed the tragic result. That's all a bunch of nonsense.

We miss Sean. We grieve for him and his family. We remember the good memories he gave us. We know that he had flaws -- so do we all -- it does not take anything away from him to acknowledge the truth. We pray that his memory will be eternal. If it turns out that this was preventable, then fans and other players can honor him even more to learn from what happened.

And as far as the author's attempt to casually dismiss gangsta rap music -- don't even get me started. A tragedy like this should get people to meditate long and hard about the artistic merits of a genre of music that celebrates and glorifies guns and killing. The lyrics make me want to throw up.
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Post by Chris Luva Luva »

Snout wrote:This article is way off the mark. Nobody "blamed Sean for his own murder." People merely asked the question "Was this preventable?

Any death is preventable in hindsight...

Snout wrote:Or was it just a random act of violence?"

In hindsight, it appears to have been.

Snout wrote:For a fact, Sean's house was burglarized a week before, and his closest friends on the team didn't even know about it. Does that sound strange to anyone?

Gibbs knew about it. He's not a close friend but it's not like he was keeping it a secret.

Snout wrote:For a fact, other NFL players who are familiar with the neighborhood have said that it was dangerous, and believe that Sean put himself at risk by staying there. The author tries to paint the neighborhood with white picket fences, but that just aint the truth.

:lol: Thats 100% incorrect. The community is it's own city... I don't know too many hoods here in Baltimore that are rich enough to petition to become it's own city. Mine surely isn't.
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Chris Luva Luva wrote:
Snout wrote:For a fact, other NFL players who are familiar with the neighborhood have said that it was dangerous, and believe that Sean put himself at risk by staying there. The author tries to paint the neighborhood with white picket fences, but that just aint the truth.

:lol: Thats 100% incorrect. The community is it's own city... I don't know too many hoods here in Baltimore that are rich enough to petition to become it's own city. Mine surely isn't.


I'm with you Chris. All I heard was the streets of Miami had people who hated him. Big difference from where his house was. I grew up in Anacostia, but I bet our crime numbers are quite different from Georgetown even though it's all considered DC.
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LOSTHOG wrote:I'm with you Chris. All I heard was the streets of Miami had people who hated him. Big difference from where his house was. I grew up in Anacostia, but I bet our crime numbers are quite different from Georgetown even though it's all considered DC.


The suburb has only 25,000 residents. Per capita income is $26,000. The community had 112 violent crime incidents reported in 2005. The village is only 16 miles from Miami -- a short drive for anyone with a grudge and a gun.

One more thought: If someone had told you at the beginning of the season that a Washington Redskins player would be murdered in his own home this year, which person would you guess it to be from the following list (chosen somewhat randomly -- I picked players with serious injuries this year):

Randy Thomas
Jon Jansen
Shawn Springs
Marcus Washington
Sean Taylor

I'll bet at least 90% would have chosen Sean Taylor (I guarantee the poll results would not be 20-20-20-20-20).

We'll have to wait and see how the investigation progresses. But in the meantime it is not wrong for journalists, detectives and fans to speculate about what might have happened.
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Post by HEROHAMO »

This was certainly preventable. That is why it is so hard for me to take.

I say it could have been prevented just on a security level. The fact is that his house was robbed a week earlier.

Could have hired a security guard to monitor his property? Could have bought a couple watch dogs to patrol his property? Had the option to move out of this house. The security of his property was compromised and I think little was done to address the issue.

My thought when I first heard the newz was NOOOO!!! Then why!!!!

Once I settled down and heard the details of the house being robbed and that it had been robbed a week earlier, I said to myself man why didnt he just move out or hire an armed security guard or something.

Hey, it is what it is. He saved his family in the process and he is in heaven now.
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