You have to take the crunchy with the smooth. If you want to do 'cool things' then you have to learn how to do them.
If you want to do it with the software that you have now (which would be the 'proper way' anyway), then I would suggest that you just jump in with both feet. Learn photoshop. Learn Flash. Simple.
There are online resources to learn from that are free, you just have to look for them. Go to google and type '
name of software free tutorial' and you'll surely find a bunch. The software comes with extensive information built in, in the form of both help files and tutorials.
Take any open source native flash file (.fla) and open it in Flash and 'deconstruct' it... check out what's there and work backwards... sometimes a good way to learn flash stuff. See if you can find an open source file that is 'like' what you're trying to accomplish.
Just saying that you want to figure it out isn't enough, and I don't know of a software package that allows you to just tell it what to do and it does it, but if you find one, let me know.
If you want to do it with what you have, then I suggest you figure out how to use what you have.
I've never taken a computer course. I own a few computer books but not many... I can use virtually every software package in existence... because I jump in and just use them. They ALL have enough built in info to facilitate doing so... or have online resources to do the same.
... otherwise, I'd have a lot more books and have taken a lot more courses.

Sean Taylor was one of a kind, may he rest in peace.