From Wilbon in the Post:
On Hochuli, NFL Drops The Ball
By Michael Wilbon
Friday, September 19, 2008; E01
Let's get something straight right off the bat: Ed Hochuli didn't fail the NFL when he blew that call Sunday; the league failed him.
Of course, that didn't stop folks from bombarding the referee with critical e-mails this week, some of them hateful and threatening.
But Hochuli did something I doubt most NFL players or coaches would do:
He answered the e-mails personally. He didn't forward them to his bosses in New York. He didn't hide behind a professional spinmeister, didn't look to hire a spokesperson, didn't issue a terse "no comment" or try to pass the blame off on somebody else. Hochuli, in what has to have been his most difficult and perhaps even humiliating public moment, acted in as sportsmanlike a manner as is humanly possible.
He owned up to his mistake. He did it once when he walked over to Chargers Coach Norv Turner immediately after ruling an incompletion on what should have been a fumble. And he owned up repeatedly with e-mailers who hammered him, beginning Sunday night and lasting into the week. The San Diego Union-Tribune obtained copies of some of Hochuli's responses and quote the referee as writing back: "I'm getting hundreds of e-mails -- hate mail -- but I'm responding to it all. People deserve a response. You can rest assured that nothing anyone can say can make me feel worse than I already feel about my mistake on the fumble play. You have no idea. . . . Affecting the outcome of a game is a devastating feeling.
"Officials strive for perfection -- I failed miserably. Although it does no good to say it, I am very, very sorry." <snip>
Any official who admits a mistake is a hero, at least to me. Referees and umpires make instantaneous call all the time, and usually they get the call right. Doubt that? PLease volunteer/umpire to referee youth baseball, soccer, basketball, or football. The professionals are great...better at their jobs than the players.
I played youth baseball until I was 17, and I thought umpiring would be a snap.
No. It isn't.
Furthermore, to admit you've missed a call takes a powerful ethical core and courage.
I salute Hochuli. He missed the call, but his reaction is the "play of the year".